Where are you?
I used to hear stories of heart break,
And wonder how they felt,
And then I’d feel so grateful for the hand that I’d been dealt.
But then someone changed the rules,
Someone changed the game,
And now our perfect life will never be the same.
I don’t pretend to know the mysteries of this earth,
But I knew how precious life is, I knew a baby’s worth.
I never was complacent – I was well aware,
Of the blessings and the privileges of children in our care.
I thought tragedy was for others, I thought we were immune,
Maybe that’s why he was taken all too soon.
I didn’t have to lose to recognise we were blessed,
We gave him all our love, we did our very best.
He was loved, he was precious, he made us a family,
I don’t understand why he was taken away from me.
Was it the hand of god? Or the finger of fate?
Or was it just all random – just a horrible mistake?
Or was it darker forces? The wages for some sin?
Or at the game of life you can’t always win?
Is there any order? Is there any sense?
Or just a lot of platitudes people like to dispense?
Things are said when you are grieving to make you feel ok,
But is any of it true or just words people say?
At the funeral I was strong, said words that then seemed true,
But now all I have is time and a future without you.
I know I’ll search for answers that I will never find,
And I know guilt will forever haunt the corners of my mind.
Even if they could tell me exactly what went wrong,
Would it make any difference – bring you back where you belong?
Where are you now my precious little boy?
Are you filled with light and with love and with joy?
Are you looking down on me and looking after us?
Or have you just returned to the dust?
Heaven, hell, dirt – in the end I just don’t care,
All I know is my arms are empty and my baby should be there.